The Henna Artist
"The night before his wedding, the henna artist comes to prepare him. Her designs are intricate. Her preparations are thorough. Some traditions require more than just decorated hands."
The henna artist arrives at midnight.
It's the night before my wedding—the lila ya henna, when the groom is prepared for his bride. My male relatives have left after hours of celebration. Now it's time for the private rituals.
I expected one of the young apprentices.
Mama Jamila walks in instead.
She's been painting henna for forty years.
Every significant wedding in Mombasa's Old Town has seen her work—the intricate designs that mark brides and grooms as ready for marriage. At fifty-nine, she's a legend. Two-sixty of artistic authority, with hands that have decorated thousands and eyes that miss nothing.
"The groom himself," she says, closing the door. "Usually I only do brides."
"My mother insisted. Said only the best for her son."
"Your mother has good taste." She sets down her kit—jars of henna paste, fine-tipped cones, small bottles of oil. "Remove your shirt. The designs go from here to here."
She gestures from my chest to my hands.
"The whole upper body?"
"The whole upper body." Her smile is thin. "This is how it's done for special grooms. The ones whose families pay for the full preparation."
I remove my shirt.
She circles me slowly, studying my body like a canvas. Her eyes are professional, assessing—but there's something else beneath. Something that makes my skin prickle.
"Good. Strong. Your bride is fortunate." She dips her cone into the paste. "Now. Hold very still. This takes hours."
She begins at my shoulder, drawing lines that curve and interlock. The paste is cool, her touch precise. As she works, she talks.
"You're nervous."
"Shouldn't I be?"
"Some men are. Some aren't." She moves to my chest, drawing closer, her breath warm on my skin. "The nervous ones are usually inexperienced. Are you inexperienced?"
"That's personal."
"Everything about tonight is personal." Her eyes flick up to mine. "Answer the question."
"I'm not inexperienced."
"Good. Then tomorrow won't be a disaster."
She works in silence for an hour.
The designs spread across my chest—geometric patterns, Arabic calligraphy, symbols I don't recognize. Her hands move with absolute confidence, but they linger in places they don't need to.
"These symbols," I say. "What do they mean?"
"Protection. Fertility. Stamina." She draws something over my heart. "This one is for endurance. The ability to last."
"Last?"
"Through the wedding night. And beyond." She's very close now, her body almost touching mine. "Some grooms need... preparation. To ensure they can perform."
"Preparation?"
"The henna is only part of it." She finishes a section, blows gently to help it dry. "The full preparation involves other rituals. Older ones. From before Islam."
"What kind of rituals?"
She doesn't answer directly. Instead, she moves to my back, continuing the designs where I can't see.
"Do you know why families pay extra for me? Instead of the young apprentices?"
"Because you're the best."
"Because I'm thorough." Her hands pause. "Because I ensure the groom is truly ready. In every way."
I should ask what that means.
I should stop her when she moves around to my front again, when her hands start working lower, when the designs creep past my waistband.
"These need to go lower," she says matter-of-factly. "The symbols for potency. They go... here."
"Mama Jamila—"
"Remove them. The trousers." Her voice is calm. Professional. "This is part of the preparation. Your mother paid for the full ritual."
I remove them.
Stand naked before her in the candlelit room, the henna paste still wet on my chest, while a woman old enough to be my mother studies me without shame.
"Good," she pronounces. "Very good. Your bride is fortunate indeed."
She begins drawing on my thighs. Higher. Higher still. The designs creep toward areas that should be forbidden, and I feel my body responding despite myself.
"This is normal," she says, not looking up. "The body reacts to stimulation. The henna ritual is meant to awaken these responses."
"This seems like more than henna."
"The henna is the beginning." She finishes the last design, sets down her cone. "Now we test the symbols."
"Test them?"
"The endurance. The stamina. The potency." She begins unwrapping her own garments. "A groom cannot go to his bride untested. What if he fails? What if the marriage is never consummated?"
"That's for my bride to—"
"Your bride is a virgin. She doesn't know what to expect." The wrappings fall away. She's massive beneath—heavy and soft and wholly unashamed. "I know what to expect. I know what works and what doesn't. I've prepared a hundred grooms."
"Prepared them... like this?"
"Like this." She moves toward me. "Tonight you learn what a woman needs. Tomorrow you give it to your wife. This is the old way. The proper way."
She takes my hand.
Presses it to her breast—heavy, warm, marked with decades of life. Her skin is soft against my henna-covered palm.
"Feel," she instructs. "Learn. A virgin won't show you. I will."
"This is—"
"Tradition." She guides my hand lower. "Now. Begin."
I begin.
She teaches me like she's painting henna—patient, precise, correcting my mistakes. How to touch a woman's body. Where to press. What rhythm to use.
"Slower. Women need time to warm." She adjusts my hand. "There. That's better."
When I make her gasp, she nods approval. "Good. Remember that spot. Your wife will have one too."
She pushes me onto the bed—the same bed where I'll lie with my bride tomorrow—and straddles me. Her weight presses down, her body engulfing mine.
"The symbols," she says. "Let's see if they work."
She rides me like she's testing a horse.
Clinical at first, assessing. Then something shifts—her breathing changes, her movements become less controlled. The teacher becomes the student.
"You're—you're good," she admits. "Better than most."
"The symbols?"
"Maybe. Or maybe you're just gifted." She moves faster. "Let me test further."
She tests me for hours.
Position after position. Her on top, me on top, from behind, from the side. She critiques and praises, adjusts and encourages. By the time she's finished, I've learned more than any wedding night could have taught me.
"Enough," she finally gasps. "You're ready."
Dawn approaches.
She dresses while the henna dries on my skin. The designs are complete—chest, back, arms, thighs, everywhere. I'm covered in symbols I don't understand, prepared by rituals I never expected.
"Your bride is fortunate," she says again. "What you learned tonight will serve her for a lifetime."
"And you?"
"I've done my job." She picks up her kit. "The preparation is complete."
"Will I see you again?"
She pauses at the door.
"At the wedding. I do the bride's henna in the morning." Her smile is knowing. "She won't know what happened here. No one will. But you'll carry the knowledge. And the symbols."
"They actually work?"
"They brought you this far, didn't they?" She opens the door. "Be good to her, boy. And remember what I taught you."
The wedding is beautiful.
My bride is everything I hoped for—young, lovely, eager for our life together. When we finally retreat to our chamber, she's nervous.
"I don't know what to do," she admits.
"I do." I take her hand. "Let me show you."
I show her everything Mama Jamila taught me. Every technique, every rhythm, every secret spot. My bride comes twice before I finally release, and she looks at me with wonder.
"Where did you learn—"
"Preparation." I kiss her. "Traditional preparation."
Years later, I see Mama Jamila at a party.
She's older now—sixty-seven—but still working. Still preparing brides and grooms for their wedding nights. Our eyes meet across the room.
Remember, her look says.
I remember everything.
And somewhere beneath my clothes, beneath years of fading, the henna symbols still live.
Henna.
Art on skin.
Preparation for a lifetime.